INTERVIEW: SONIA COOPER, A SELF LOVE STORY
Sonia Cooper tells her story of self love…
Your message of body positivity is inspirational, tell us your story…
So what happened to me is that I was cooking pasta at a friend’s house, I fell asleep and when I woke up I suddenly remembered the pasta so a ran to the kitchen but I slipped and when I tried to get up I leaned on the handle of the pot (’cause I was still half asleep). All the boiling water and the pasta fell on me burning all my chest/breasts and arms. So 15% of my body had 2nd and 3rd degree burns.
What does the ‘body positivity’ mean to you?
To me “body positivity” is to learn to love and embrace your body no matter how it is and no matter what other people can say. Just love yourself.
What is are you working on at the moment?
I want to finish my bachelor’s year to finally start my stewardess studies, to work on something I really love and be totally independent. I would love to have my Cabin Crew Attestation this year, but because of the accident I missed a few month of classes, so now I have to repeat the year. Still, that leaves me a year to finish my recovery and to undergo the two surgeries I still have to do.
Who has inspired you most along the way?
When I was in the hospital, my mum sent me a video of a young woman (who is also a burn survivor, of 40% of her body) talking about her experience some years ago and I cried a lot because she described exactly how I felt. She gave me the hope and the strength I needed to face the situation. Thanks to her, my confidence was boosted and I promised myself to never be ashamed of my scars. She is @douzefevrier on Instagram.
Tell us about a campaign/advert that made you angry.
In general I dislike hair removal adverts which show women shaving hairless legs as if body hair doesn’t exist. I think it’s ridiculous because all people have hair on their bodies. And most people act like it’s gross or not normal and that doesn’t help to normalize it. It’s okay to shave if we want and it’s also okay to not touch it. Every woman should be free to choose for herself. Those adverts are trying to make us ashamed of something normal. And ashamed of our bodies.
Are there any issues you see people face in your day to day life that the world can find easy to ignore?
Yes, because every person has their own problems. But it’s not because someone has more or less issues that they have to be ignored. Many people have problems that they don’t want to talk about, maybe because they’re ashamed or because they think they’re not important enough. I think everyone should be able to talk about their problems without thinking they are going to be judged. We’re no one to judge other people issues.
Pick a slogan to put on one of our equality stickers?
Equality is something that should already be in our society, if we have to fight for it, it’s because the world has a big problem.
What advice would you give to yourself 10 years ago?
To be patient and very strong to face everything.
What are your three favourite smells?
The smell when I walk next to a bakery, pizza and my love’s clothes (I love to smell his t-shirts when I wear them).
Witch or bitch?
Bitchy witch hahaha. But always witch.